Archive photo of Toby Reeder speaking to the crowd about Shiduchim
Shady Chan and dating coach toby reader Our Australian members share 15 simple insights to help single boys and girls navigate the complex world of shidduchim.Full text
Written by Toby Reader
1. Identify your top five core values. Use it as a reference point before and after each date.
2. Create a profile that accurately represents who you are and describes your personality and interests.
3. Remove posts and photos from social media that are inaccurate or potentially offensive.
4. Involve a matchmaker until the engagement to avoid misunderstandings and ensure a smoother process.
5. Express your appreciation for your matchmaker’s efforts by sending a thank you note, a small gift, or both.
6. Parents should pay attention to their children’s standards for their spouse and not impose their own standards.
7. Feel free to share your profile and ask your closest friends and family for help.
8. Be open-minded! Consider previously rejected proposals.
9. Don’t believe rumors. Please ask directly to confirm.
10. Do research. Make sure it’s compatible before you spend too much time and energy.
11. Make your dating life a priority. Take a break from work and relax in preparation for your date.
12. Please be punctual. Show reliability by arriving and returning on time.
13. Avoid texting! To avoid misunderstandings, please communicate in person or by phone.
14. Listen actively. Listen more than you talk and actively listen to what your date has to say. Repeat what you hear in your own words.
15. Stay positive and be yourself!
– Mrs. Toby Reeder is a world-renowned dating coach, shadchan, educator, and instructor. Toby is passionate about bringing people together and influencing future generations.
Using her life experience as the mother of a 14-year-old, she has coached hundreds of singles to navigate the dating landscape with clarity and confidence. WhatsApp: +61470173916 or email: [email protected] Website: tobydatingcoach.com