It can be very exhilarating when a man starts chasing you. He calls and makes plans. You are in the process of building a relationship.
The difficult thing is to keep chasing him. If he quits too soon, he’s back to square one. Do you want to know how to make a man fall in love with you and stay with you for a long time?
With that in mind, here are three secrets to keep him moving toward a long-lasting relationship.
Here are 3 secret ways to make him want to date you.
1. Don’t chase him
If a man starts chasing you, don’t chase him back. Don’t make plans or invite him to anything. Please don’t do that. You want him to feel like he has all the control. It also shows him that he has enough confidence in you that you don’t have to constantly worry about why he doesn’t text you back or breaks his phone.
Men want to chase. They just don’t want to get caught. If you turn the tables and chase him, he will lose interest.
2. Don’t get too comfortable
Courtship is when one person pursues the other. The amount of time a man spends trying to win you over sets the tone for the entire relationship. If he takes too long to plan dates or reply to messages, it means he doesn’t like you as much as you like him.
If you get too comfortable and forget the importance of courtship, you may think you don’t need it. I assure you, that’s right. Men fall in love when they give.
3. Let him come up with ideas.
The guy you’re chasing will keep chasing you as long as he chases you. He has to make an effort to charm you and he has to think that he can lose you if he is not careful. Make him understand that if he doesn’t act right, he can lose you and that there are many other guys who want you.
This requires a little patience. Wait until he calls you or plans your next date. This is important because I want to know how he deals with reality.
If you want a long-lasting relationship, it has to be his idea.
If you don’t chase him, he will chase you.
If you resist the urge to get comfortable, he’ll do the job of courting you.
Have some patience, calm down and accept that it is his idea to build a relationship.
James Allen Hanrahan is a dating and relationship coach for women based in Los Angeles.He is also the author of love life and Dating advice for alpha women.