I received a wonderful email from Sharon the other day. She told me all about this wonderful man she met while browsing some dating sites. she wrote:
“I met a wonderful guy on a dating site. We chatted for about a week before we decided to meet officially. We hit it off right away. He’s handsome and smart, but he’s always traveling all over the country for work. I’m traveling.And the worst part is.”
No matter how much it hurts, you need to run instead of walk. — Stay away from this doomed relationship. This guy is trying to juggle his wife, girlfriend, divorce, career, and yet he never returns home. Eventually he will feel forgotten. You wonder if he’s swiping on Tinder again for sex.
Here are three types of men who will never commit to you.
1. Mr. Still Marriage
If a man lives in the same house with his wife, he is most likely still married. The stories he tells you that they’re trying to split things up (and they’re doing it for the kids) are usually lies. he wants to have sex. He needs intimacy. He wants a spiritual connection with another woman.
So be careful of misters who are still married. Only date people who are confirmed to be single. Don’t go out with a man until you get back to his house and check everything that he lives alone. Make sure there is no ex-wife, current wife, children, or anyone else in the background.
2. Business trip
Business travelers love dating sites. He’ll say things like he’s been in your town for a week. He is looking for a tour guide. He is thinking of moving there. He’s heard great things. Could you please show him around?
So, you, the woman who wants to introduce a man (especially a sexy man), go into flirtation mode. This guy is so cute and now he’s flirting with you. He wants you to show him around.
Mr. Business Trip really only wants one thing. It’s intimacy. I’ll try to be as honest as possible. The business trip is an expert. He goes to a new city every few days and plays the same game. He remembered his story. He is an expert at luring women to hotels.
Come on, you thought he was that charming and needed a tour guide? Unless you’re an official or an actual tour guide, he’s playing you. He knows this will work. He gave his email to hundreds of women on the same online dating site, cut and pasted it, and hoped one or two would bite.
He’s obsessed with intimacy. His wife stopped sleeping with him. He can’t have sex in his hometown without getting arrested, so he takes the show on the road. Avoid creating a new position for him. Also, avoid having your city name saved on his phone instead of your name.
3. Mr. Texter
Here are men who are either photo collectors or are in love with their looks. Mr. Texter loves to go back and forth. He loves email.
Will you ever meet him? When will you two meet? It’s been 3 weeks and you’ve still only sent him emails. why?
Because Mr. Texter works with many other women and is Mr. Bigger Better Deal. He will contact you when all the women in front of you on his list are unavailable. He is also likely to be Mr. Married. Through texts and emails, he can get anything he can’t get from his wife. He still wants marriage and a little fling over email.
A guy who can’t make an appointment to meet within the first week is a guy you need to take off the phone. No one is that busy.
If he’s on an online dating site, hangs out with you, texts you at night, but keeps making excuses during the day, dump him. Usually Mr. Excuse and Mr. Email are the same person. Although he says he is busy with work, he mysteriously has enough time to keep texting and emailing. He’s taking you with him because he has someone else he cares about.
It’s very simple. A man who doesn’t meet you within the first week is a waste of time.
The bottom line is that if a man keeps secrets about you, keeps his distance, or only meets for intimacy, you need to get rid of him. he doesn’t deserve you He hopes these three things will help you get better results in online dating.
David Wygant I’m a dating coach who has been helping men and women transform their love lives for the past 20 years. As a lead writer for Ask Men and the Huffington Post, his advice has been provided across television, newspapers, and magazines, including MTV, The New York Times, MSNBC, Fox News, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, and E!. Entertainment TV etc.