In today’s world, it’s more difficult than ever to participate and commit to a marriage. But what you need to do to have a good relationship is also what you need to do to keep it alive and healthy.
If you want to keep your relationship healthy, you need to start listening to your partner. Too many people don’t. More importantly, you need to care about how your partner feels.
Many men do not understand why they need to maintain their relationship. They have a hard time understanding that relationships are living, breathing things that need to be cared for and nurtured in order to stay healthy, live, and thrive. But sometimes we don’t fully understand what our wives are trying to convey to us.
Here are four things that women want their husbands to know that men don’t often ask.
1. What she needs
She will communicate her love language to you in the way she loves you. You can’t think like a man to make your woman happy and have a successful marriage with her because she has the exact opposite body type from you.
You’ll really learn about women, how they think, what sex means to them, how hormones play a role in everything, and what’s important to a woman’s heart, mind, and body. Must be. Men need to learn about what really turns women on.
But simply reading a book or taking a few classes is not enough. No, you actually need to ask a woman about her unique wants and needs. And you need to pay close attention to what turns her on and what shuts her down.
2. After satisfying her sexually
Women have been raised to protect men’s delicate egos.it is a well known fact Women often lie about having an orgasm. There are countless reasons why women behave this way, but the main reason is very simple.
Women don’t want to hurt your feelings. In any case, she is made to believe that even if they speak up, nothing will change for that person.
In the early stages of a relationship, sex is exploratory, playful, and adventurous. Over time, sex can become mundane, boring, and even a chore. Women crave and need adventure.it is shown Women get bored with relationships much faster than men And the main reason your woman is bored is that sex has become a routine.
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Just like before, no more adventure, no play, no foreplay. You stopped caring about what makes her feel desirable and makes her feel good in her bedroom. When this happens, your woman will gradually become aroused and shut down.
3. How much does she want to be courted?
Courtship is about romance. Women want a man to notice the little things in her life, ask her about her day, and then actively listen to what she has to say. Not as Mr. Fix-It, but as a caring partner in her life.
Courtship is about taking the time to plan new adventures for the two of you to experience together. With work, family, kids, and repeat, Kife can become mundane and boring. This does not create desire, passion, connection, or depth. Then your woman will feel empty and invisible, as if she doesn’t matter.
What did you do when you were trying to prove yourself to your girlfriend in the early days of your relationship? She doesn’t need it on the same level, but you did it in a healthy and long-lasting way. If you want her to, you better believe that she needs it and your relationship does too.
Men take flowers and random gifts way too lightly. Pay attention to what she really likes and enjoys, not what is useful or needed or what you as a man want.
4. How to make her like it
This is probably the biggest problem women have with men. If you don’t ask her about this, she might cheat or refuse to have sex with you. If you don’t want to end up in either of these situations, realize that foreplay is important for women.
Women need time to rejuvenate. They don’t function like men. Their bodies can’t participate with just a quick kiss or grab. No, women need touch, passionate kisses, playfulness, and a man who wants to know their bodies.
Your woman is probably going to share these things with you.
She may have cried, threatened, or fought with you over meaningless things in hopes that you could read her mind. Maybe she doesn’t connect these things to how she feels or sees you or the relationship.
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Women may not fully understand their sexuality and how it connects to their life and happiness. But she can learn with her. Happy wife, happy life – as the saying goes.
The best way to make her happy is to focus on these things. Stop treating her like she’s a man or like she’s a hormonal person. Don’t worry about trying to solve her problems unless she asks.
Instead, focus on regaining connection, desire, and creating passion and adventure.
Rene Schooler (aka Kendall Williams) is a highly trained intimacy and relationship coach, author, and speaker. Her work has been published in Elephant Journal, Medium, The Good Men Project, Raw Attraction, and has been featured on LifeTime TV and “Married at First Sight.”