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“We had been dating for two years and had established similar ideas about our future (buying a house, having children, pursuing careers) before we rushed to court in November. After we got married, we started planning our next religious ceremony to satisfy our large Indian family, which took place 7 months after our wedding date. It was supposed to take place in March. As we got closer to the day of that celebration, his true nature started to show, and I noticed the signs a little too late.” “D is with a narcissist. We got married, and once I started noticing that his personality was different, our lives were thrown into turmoil.”
“He was still trying to get me pregnant in January, which I thought was strange because he knew we had to wait until after the religious ceremony. .So I had to follow my instincts that something was wrong, so I did some research and found out.”He had inappropriate conversations with other women and took our savings to OnlyFans. When I confronted him, he collapsed on the floor crying and begged me for forgiveness. But when I told him I couldn’t forgive him unless he got professional help. He said, “He stood up, grinned, and told me he didn’t want to have children, and left. In March, I immediately canceled all plans and took his things with him.” I left him at his parents’ house, and he avoided me until I went after him.” I told him on his birthday in April to get him to sign divorce papers, but we didn’t know what to do. He thought I wouldn’t do it because divorce is frowned upon in our culture. Living with people who are just fulfilling cultural roles with a modern twist. ”
-Anonymous