Flirting is an important skill used to spark a connection. Flirting is a fun, creative, and playful way to communicate with someone and get their attention. And hopefully their hearts too.
When you meet someone in person, Flirting is a matter of your body language Other nonverbal communication, such as eye contact, smiling, and sending signals through your hands. However, if you use dating sites or apps to meet people, you need to know how to flirt over text.
Doing this successfully requires a combination of imagination and self-control. You’ll want to be charming while not overdoing the frequency or intensity of your statements.
After a few dates, you may start sending sexier messages, but even then, keep your texts rated PG to avoid giving the wrong impression about what you want. is needed.
Here are 11 important ground rules for flirting with men over text.
1. Flattery will get you anywhere.
Is there anyone who doesn’t like compliments? Just don’t overdo it. One is a good thing. Two is the limit.
2. Be mysterious
When you say everything, what’s left? If you are mysterious and don’t say too much about yourself at once, you can keep the other person interested for a long time.
3. Wait…wait…
Remember that you are a sought after woman and you are busy. Therefore, you don’t necessarily have to respond immediately. Give the other person a moment to wonder what you’re doing.
4. Tag, you are it
Once you get to know each other, the thrill of the chase becomes very high. If one of you always starts conversations or makes plans, you won’t know if the other person is bored or interested in you. If you leave room for them to put in the effort, you can make sure they reflect the time and effort you put in.
5. Unleash your creativity
Avoid mundane things like “How are you doing this week?” What can he say is “good”? boring.
Ask unexpected questions that are easy to answer. Try something like “Pancakes and cereal?” “Tea and coffee?” “Football or soccer?” “Rolling Stones or Beatles?” “Tupac or Biggie?”
6. Apply your sense of humor wisely
If you have a sense of humor, please take advantage of it! If you’re having fun, they’ll want to know more about you.
7. Say their name, say their name
It’s nice to hear someone say your name, so put your name in your texts from time to time.
8. Merry-go-round with fun topics
If you want to put someone in a good mood, ask them what they do with their free time.
What sports teams do they follow? Do they have any hobbies? What will they do on a rainy Saturday afternoon?
Ask them to tell you about themselves. They will think you are a good conversationalist.
9. Use social media wisely
All of these tips can also be used on social media. For best results, keep it light, short, and fun. You don’t want to seem like a stalker, so don’t like their posts too much or comment too often. This is a place where less is more.
Social media is public, so don’t overshare about the two of you. Remember that they may not be as open as you are and doing so may scare them off and drive them away. Keep your special moments to yourself until you know what’s going on.
10. Smart Textiles Send Smart Texts
No one can deny that sending text messages is fun and exciting, but you want to be careful about the content you send. If you’re looking for something serious with a guy rather than casual, don’t start exchanging more intimate messages until you’ve been on a few dates and get to know him better.
If you’ve just started texting, avoid texting with guys who ask for more photos. There’s something creepy about men who need more than what you’ve posted. Men often enjoy daydreaming, so they may want your photos.
One big concern is that the naked photos you send may remain on the web forever. Think twice before sending intimate texts or exchanging sexy selfies with someone you barely know. Sadly, things like this happen every day, and once something is published on the internet, there’s often nothing you can do to remove it.
The best solution is to submit a PG-rated photo that does not include your face or any identifying marks such as birthmarks or tattoos.
Leaving something to the imagination can be the sexiest thing ever.
11. Leave some room for face-to-face interaction
Texting is a great way to get to know someone, but don’t forget that you still want to meet up.
Many women mistakenly think that a guy who wants to send messages all day long is a sign that he’s serious. Sorry, that’s not the case. They may be lonely, bored, want to be entertained, need attention, or just enjoy the ego boost from your text messages. This is of no use.
Texting is the way to get to a first date. However, it’s not the best idea to spend weeks or months getting to know the other person until one of you finally decides it’s time to meet for the first time or go on another date. Some people have no intention of meeting you or starting a serious relationship. Don’t fall into this trap.
This basic rule makes things a lot easier. If the person cannot meet you for wine, beer, soda, coffee, or tea within 7 to 10 days, stop texting her.
They probably won’t be able to see you. So stop expecting their excuses to be valid. That way, someday they’ll find the time. they don’t.
There are many good people. While one person is trying to get his act together, he has to hold himself up and not miss. I want someone to be ready right now. If not, move on and find someone who does.
Now that you know the 11 basic rules of how to text, you’re ready to go out and meet people.
Have fun and don’t take yourself too seriously. Take the pressure off and improve your flirting skills.
The more you relax and enjoy meeting people, the faster you will be able to attract and meet the right person and the love of your dreams.
Ronnie Anne Ryan is an intuitive coach and past life reader. In her audio course, How to ask the universe for a sign, It is available to anyone looking for answers.