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“My ex-husband asked his best friend to move in with him right after we got married. I said, okay, he’s a cool guy, and he said He wanted to hit him and begged me to have an open relationship, so we got married.” “We could have had a threesome. As it turned out, the friend wasn’t interested in it, but I was, so he requested that I continue my relationship with him. “My ex-husband shrugged.” “He said he was already seeing other men so he didn’t care. I didn’t know he was using Grindr.”
“The story moved on to the next year and I told him I wanted to focus on my marriage and end the public relationship. He threatened to divorce me. and he made me very happy at that time.”We were together.
In the end, all three of us ended up moving state, and it turned out my ex-husband had slept with someone who was HIV-positive without telling me. He also continued to gaslight me and completely beat me up no matter what I did.
Eventually I asked for a divorce and he told his friends and family that I had cheated on him. He withdrew his $20,000 from our joint bank account and walked away. Then at the divorce hearing he tried to get me back.
Since then, I have been happily married to his ex-best friend for two years and have two children. It was hard to come to terms with how he treated us, but we helped each other and got through it. I still don’t believe I cheated because he forced me to. ”
— Kittene Aerobics