Dear Deirdre: My girlfriend and I were considering inviting another person into our relationship after watching the TV show “The Open House” about a couple trying to become a threesome.
At first, we talked about inviting a man over for a threesome.
But as a man, I’m straight, so I’ve never been comfortable exploring sex or foreplay with other men.
And when I suggested adding a woman, my girlfriend felt the same way because she’s straight.
However, the conversation took a turn for the worse when she stated that the purpose of a threesome was to have better sex with someone other than her partner.
I don’t mind the idea of having an open relationship, but I don’t think you should want to have better sex or foreplay with a third party.
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You need to feel sexual satisfaction with your lover.
I’m now wondering if everything will work out because she’s looking for something better with someone other than me.
I don’t mind her doing something different, but it’s better to take it a step too far.
If I wanted to be better, I wouldn’t have been with her, I would have been seeing someone else.
I don’t know what to do or how to get through this.
Deirdre says: You were in a committed relationship and things were going well.
It makes perfect sense not to want to explore sex or foreplay with other men.
Many men probably feel the same way.
Now you are worried that you are not good enough as a partner and that she will seek sexual experiences with another man.
I recommend that you explain your feelings to her so that she can be reassured that this is not the case.
My support packs “Exciting Foreplay” and “50 Ways to Add Fun to Sex” will help you improve sex within your relationship.
Although it seems very unlikely, if you do decide to open up your relationship, make sure to set firm boundaries so that neither of you is hurt by the other partner at any time.
Opening up a relationship can be fun and thrilling, but it can also be a big risk.
I hope this advice is helpful to you.