If you’ve ever wondered why some women seem to know how to make men fall in love with them so easily, the answer is that it’s all about three little things.
It may not seem like anything special, but the results you get are dramatic. They never seem to sit and think about whether a man likes or loves them.
Luckily, if you want to know how to get a boyfriend who’s a really high-quality man, a little detective work (and a few secrets from a man’s perspective) will get him to you in no time. You can learn how to keep yourself hooked. No time at all.
Women who know why men fall in love know that there are three small things that make a man want to be with you.
Here are three little things that turn men on.
1. They let men chase them.
As you’ve probably noticed by now, it’s effective to not chase men.
A woman who knows how to take a man down hard doesn’t just stand there and wait to catch him when he falls. She continues with her life as if her relationship with him is the furthest thing from her mind.
She makes him do all the work. He makes phone calls, plans the next date, and picks up the check.
They do this because they understand that when you give, you fall in love. They also understand basic things about men. It means that men thrive on your appreciation and the satisfaction they feel from making you happy.
If you appreciate what he does, if you feel that he makes you happy, if you accept his offer, compliment his judgment, and appreciate him, then he will will fall hard in love with you.
2. They make men prove themselves worthy.
When a man starts falling in love with you, he becomes impatient. You want to know when he’s going on his next date, when he’s going to call you, what his plans are.
That’s understandable, but women who know why men fall in love are patient. They want to see how men handle things, so they let their interactions with men unfold naturally.
They understand that the concept of courtship involves one person chasing the other and proving themselves worthy in the process.
They know that patience is a friend and that by waiting until he calls, they can show her if he’s really the kind of guy she wants to be around.
3. Express your feelings
A woman who knows why men fall in love will not waste her time arguing with a man about how he is treated. She just lets the man know what feels good to her and what doesn’t.
For the right man to be into you, he needs to care about your feelings. This is the true test of a man’s qualities.
That’s why it’s so important for you to tell him how you feel. If he’s doing or saying something that makes you uncomfortable, let him know.
This may seem counterintuitive, but strangely enough, when you tell a man how you feel, he ends up wanting to make you feel good, even if it doesn’t feel good. It makes me think. It will trigger a defensive urge in his nature, which in turn will make him fall in love with you.
Does this apply to all men? of course not. But it can work if you work with the right people.
The fundamental reason why men fall in love has to do with three small things:
So remember, don’t chase men. Let them chase you.
Patience is your friend. Give men time to court you. Courtship is a test of how he values you. So if you start to get impatient, be sure to take a deep breath, sit back, and wait for him to come to you.
Your feelings are gold. Those are the things that really turn men on. When you tell him how you feel, he suddenly wants to take care of you without knowing why.
It’s the little things that really bring men down, and even if you don’t know why, now that you know about these three little things, the man’s world is your oyster.
James Allen Hanrahan is a dating and relationship coach for women based in Los Angeles. He is also the author of A Life of Love and Dating Advice for Alpha Women.