I’ve never been single for a long time. I don’t know if this is good or bad. I would like to think that it is the same as bananas being yellow.
I love everything about being in a relationship, but at some point in my life I was either a) single, or b) dating furiously and maybe even involved with someone, but that person wasn’t my romantic interest. There was a time when I was unhappy. They fit me like a glove.
Ultimately, after practicing mindfulness and learning about the metaphysics of the Law of Attraction, non-attachment, energy, etc., I understood the steps to attracting a romantic partner who matched what I had said I wanted. Did.
If you want to attract your perfect love partner, first make sure you complete the following steps.
1. Take responsibility.
Admit that you have a deep subconscious fear of love. According to Bruce Liptonauthor of many popular books about how our thoughts and beliefs affect our lives. biology of belief95% of what we think is in our subconscious mind, but only 5% of our thoughts are conscious, or conscious.
On the surface, we might say to ourselves things like: I’m ready for love! However, because we witnessed our parents having an unhealthy relationship, we may unconsciously believe that love equals pain. We have deep-seated fears that affect us as we grow up, and until we acknowledge their existence, we cannot change them.
Our thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions influence things, especially those that we are unaware of.
2. Release the bondage from your past lover.
Dissatisfaction from past relationships prevents new partners from entering our lives. We need to separate ourselves from our ex-lover.
How do we do that? Two methods: 1) Cord cutting meditation involves visualizing the cord of light that connects us to our ex-lover that we have cut. 2) We forgive them. We have to allow them to lie, cheat, be bossy, act unkind, and not follow the script we have written for them.
By forgiving them, we free them and free ourselves. When we have a complaint about someone, it binds us to that person.
3. Clear out limiting beliefs.
There are no good men. I’m too fat to attract a partner. I’m too old. Everyone cheats. There’s no one in this town. They’re all dogs. Romance is dead.
stop. Please stop making excuses. Spiritual maturity is about taking control of your life. you are not a victim. You are an extension of God and create your reality with your thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions.
Choose your thoughts carefully. Make sure there is lots of love. If your friend attracts a wonderful partner, tell yourself that this is proof that love is possible. Limitations and lack are illusions. If your thoughts are aligned, there will be plenty of love.
4. Put yourself out there.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you don’t meet someone while you’re at home in your pajamas watching reality TV.
I need to go out. You need to get involved in things. You need to learn something new. You need to have a first date. Maybe there are many. Enjoy the process. enjoy. Buy a frilly dress or a stylish tie and enjoy the games of love. It should be fun.
5. Pay attention to how much love you allow.
The people you attract into your life are a reflection of your subconscious fears.
Attract emotionally quiet men? You are emotionally quiet.
Would you date a woman who treats you badly? You need to work on your self-talk because you are being unkind to yourself. If you haven’t found the right partner for you, it’s a sign that you still need to do some vigorous cleaning.
6. Think about what you want.
You want someone who is tall, dark and handsome, rich and successful, or someone with a six-pack. Probably not.
Your soul probably longs for honesty, integrity, someone you can communicate with, or someone who can teach you how to trust. Don’t be swayed by the list you’ve created in your head as “Mr.” or “Mrs. Perfect.” Your idea of perfection is holding you back from true love. True love is imperfect, messy, lumpy, and stinky, all rolled into one. That’s beautiful.
7. Visualize your future relationship.
Close your eyes and imagine how your relationship feels. Imagine what it feels like to have a real partner. Someone you can open up to and share your deepest feelings with, someone you can laugh with and relax with, someone who brings out the best in you. See it, feel it, feel the gratitude before you bring that person into your life.
Attracting the right person for you takes some time and energy. It takes opening your heart, changing your mind, and letting someone or something new into your life, but it’s all worth it in the end. Because the fastest way to learn about yourself is through partnership with others.
Jessie Leon is a freelance writer whose work has been featured in YourTango, Elephant Journal, and Evie Magazine. She covers her relationship, personal development, and lifestyle topics.
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