I’m sure I’ve written about this before, but it seems to continue to plague online dating. It doesn’t matter if you’re on his OkCupid, Match, or Plentyoffish. You may also be using dating apps like Hinge or Tinder.
The biggest mistake women make on their profile is their photo.
Most men don’t read your profile. Because most of the time, men won’t look into your history for long because they expect to be turned down anyway.
They may skim right away to contact you and that’s it.
What they are looking at is your photo.
A woman uploads an old photo of herself and then one current photo that unfortunately doesn’t look like her at all. This is a big mistake.
It’s no big deal if you felt more attractive when you were younger. But you’re still attractive just the way you are. That’s why you should post photos of yourself as you are.Wow.
This honest advice (don’t use old photos) may be hard to accept, but men will see it and think that you’re not being honest or that you’re intentionally deceiving them. . (Incidentally, the same advice applies to men as well.)
I often see this contradiction in photos. Please post a photo of what you look like now. This is probably great.
If you are between 25 and 30 years old, you are not going to post pictures of yourself as a teenager because you feel that you are still young and in a hot stage of your life.
When you meet a guy by posting an old photo of yourself, he quickly learns two things about you. He is learning that you are insecure about the way you look now and that you are willing to lie to attract a man.
Please include 5 photos that best represent how you look now. It doesn’t look like it did 10 years ago. In order to attract the right man for you right away, you need a photo of what you look like right now.
Don’t give him a reason not to contact you. When we see contradictory photos, we think that we are hiding something.
You may end up ruining your chances with a great man. All five of his current photos match your current appearance. Give it a try and we guarantee that your online dating life will instantly improve.
David Wygant I’m a dating coach who has been helping men and women transform their love lives for the past 20 years. As a lead writer for Ask Men and the Huffington Post, his advice has been provided across television, newspapers, and magazines, including MTV, The New York Times, MSNBC, Fox News, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, and E!. Entertainment TV etc.