When you fall in love and desire a healthy relationship (or even marriage!), being able to tell if a man is trustworthy is very important.
Having seen men come and go over the years of dating, most women believe that finding a man with the right mix of personality traits and characteristics is the basis of a successful and mutually satisfying long-term relationship. I realize something.
A good man, the kind of man you’d marry, has three essential qualities that are almost universally found in men with whom you can build a life. If you know what to look for, you can find a man you can trust and fall in love with confidence.
Women always marry men who have these three personality traits:
1. He is generous
Strangely enough, generosity is a characteristic of a reliable man. When you meet a guy for the first time, most of the time, if he’s about 50/50 of his age, you can hardly believe that he would want to grow up with you. A focus on keeping things 50-50 is often a sign of someone who is dedicated to self-preservation.
Men are inherently hard-wired to provide something. They will give to you and fall in love.
Generosity is a sign that a man is ready for a relationship, and although it may sound strange, it signals that he’s not afraid of responsibility, so you can trust him to be there for you. It’s a sign.
2. He is protective
A man you can trust is a man who cares about your physical health. He cares about the condition of your car and home and where you are in time and space. He checks to see if you get home after the date, and pays attention to what you’re doing and if you’re safe.
Nature teaches humans to protect what they value. If a man shows that he feels protective towards you, it’s a sign that he’s the kind of man you can start trusting.
Good men show love through their actions. They know that in order to win your heart, it is important to build a trustworthy record with you.
3. He values her.
A man you can trust will value your feelings. He will check in with you to see if you are happy with what he is doing, both in the context of your relationship and life in general.
Trust is built over time by establishing reliable records. Good men do this by keeping an eye on your emotional barometer. They want to make sure you are happy and comfortable.
Therefore, when a man starts consulting you before making life-changing decisions, he is once again showing you that he is consciously choosing to be a man you can trust.
Generous men give because they want to give you something.
A protective man cares about you and wants to keep you out of harm’s way.
A man who values you is gold. His concern for your feelings shows that he values you and considers your well-being and well-being as you build a relationship together.
Trust is built over time with a man who has established a trustworthy record. A man who knows how to love will protect you, cherish you and provide for you.
James Allen Hanrahan is a dating and relationship coach for women based in Los Angeles.He is also the author of love life and Dating advice for alpha women.